[[covid]]

• feeling better than yesterday morning, but still not recovered. some cough and a sore throat remain.

I read about the [[fossil]] [[scm]] in [[hn]]

#push [[sql]]

• today I reviewed/refreshed [[sql joins]] apropos of a random article on [[hn]]
• reminded me of when I studied [[relational algebra]] back in university, it was nice

[[capra course]]

• DONE [[lecture 4]]

  --[2022-03-27 Sun 22:24:34] => 04:47:51

• DONE [[lecture 5]]

  --[2022-04-02 Sat 09:59:58] => 131:35:22

[[flancia]]

• [[open letters]]
• [[commons]]
  • [[agora]]

[[agora]]

• [[agora bridge]]
  • fixed a long standing bug with invalid repos requesting username:password on pulling and blocking the queue: https://twitter.com/flancian/status/1508031488301936645 pull
  • thanks [[carelogic]] for the report!
  • [[agora bot twitter]]
    • is for some reason not catching up with all tweets by [[kvistgaard]], see e.g. [[roco]] being empty
  • #push [[maubot]]
    • [[maubot standalone]] looks great, what we want to integrate this better with [[agora bridge]] I think: https://docs.mau.fi/maubot/usage/standalone.html pull
    • recommended by [[tulir]]

[[Antiflancia]]

• I try not to think of Antiflancia very often, I realize. But sometimes it happens.
• I'm an [[anti fascist]], so I guess that means in [[Antiflancia]] there are [[fascists]].
  • [[nazis]]
    • [[hugo boss]] (!)

[[risks]]

• Instead of asking "when's a good time to talk" consider "is now a bad time to talk". Since everyone in our [[society]] coordinates on "No", it is faster and smoother to continue coordinating in terms of finding the "No".
  • instead of "do you want to [[win]]" consider "do you want to [[lose]]" followed by asking your interlocutor for a way forward. This gives them a feeling of safety, first through control, then by the proof of control- by you asking them what path to take. This is pretty similar to using a fast direct attack ("do you want to lose") followed playing bottom in [[BJJ]] ("how should I win").
  • A "[[no]]" gives someone a moment to stop and think, much like [[defensive]] [[BJJ]] gives someone a moment to stop and find a [[direction]].
  • "No" gives people a way out of where they are [[trap]]ped, to show us more of their [[wants]]. "[[No]]" lets people find ways that actually help them [[move]], instead of being stuck.
    • You may have to [[hunt]] for [[No]], by [[wake]] hunting through making an openly false claim that they would say "no" to.
    • If someone is not saying "[[No]]", it's a mark of someone too confused to make any decision about which way they want to go, or someone so deeply [[entrenched]] that it may take too long to draw their [[want]]s out.
• [[Hunting]] for "[[yes]]" makes people [[defensive]], because they can sense they are being hunted.