• [[flancia]] all day!
• [[flancia meet]]
  • [[java assignment]]
  • [[apl]]
  • [[nodeinfo]]
  • [[mycomarkup]]
  • [[sourcehut]]
  • [[git email]]
    • Sent trivial patch to [[mycomarkup]] to learn how to send email patches -- worked well after the initial gmail setup.
• [[social coop]]
  • want to advance the wiki-alpha setup, maybe finish it?
  • and start hacking on the ansible recipe to move registrations to join.social.coop
• [[buddhism]]

  • #push [[mala]]

    • a typical mala has [[108]] beads, and the reason is combinatorial :)
      • 6 senses * (past, present, future) * (good, bad, neutral) * (internal, external)

  • [[shaolin monastery]]

    • https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shaolin_Monastery pull

  • [[taixu]]

    • is incidentally one of the buggy Agora locations that redirect to Wikipedia automatically
      • I like it as a potential feature maybe but it should feel more optional ;)
      • fix
• [[agora]]
  • So many bugs to fix :)
  • But first, I want to add [[mycomarkup]] support!
• #push [[AG]]
  • [[Reithalle]] Bern
    • https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kulturzentrum_Reitschule pull
  • [[Beautiful]]

• Triggering [[resistance]] in someone makes it more likely that they will commit to the position they talked about- after they've talked about it. So, it will make it harder for them to [[change]] if they talk with a position against the change.
  • "[[Turn]] in the [[direction]] of the skid" while [[driving]] on [[ice]]. Once [[traction]] is established, then turn.
    • The person who is to be changed has to be the one to [[talk]] about why they should [[change]].
      • To [[change]], [[people]] need to see a difference between what they [[want]] and what is.
        • When something someone is doing goes against something they deeply [[want]], it is what they are doing that will [[change]]. collapsed:: true
          • Mis[[alignment]] can be necessary for [[change]], since it is the first step to noticing a [[difference]] between what they [[want]] and what they do. collapsed:: true
            • What would make someone consider how the way things are doesn't [[fit]] them?
            • What would make someone consider a [[change]] to [[fit]] them?
            • What would make someone consider that [[change]] is possible?
            • What would make someone [[talk]] about how they are going to [[change]]?
          • [[Change]] can only come to people if a part of them really does [[want]] to change.
          • [[Change]] is easier when it is drawn out gently, instead of pushed.
        • A kind of [[talk]] to people to help [[change]]. collapsed:: true
          • collapsed:: true
            1. [[Accept]] where people are. [[Listen]] to them to hear where they are.
            2. Help [[explore]] what they [[want]] until they see a difference between what they want and what is.
            3. Go in the direction of their [[resistance]] to [[change]]. This is [[Kuzushi]].
            4. Give [[energy]] to anything they say that [[moves]] toward [[change]].
            • When something is seen as a [[block]] to their [[want]], they will be more likely to [[change]] it.
            • The perceived [[difference]] between what they [[want]] and what is has to be amplified to bridge the difficulty of [[moving]] to get what they want.
            • Ask about wants that might be blocked by the thing they are doing that needs to [[change]].
            • People are most persuaded by what they say. What do they [[notice]] that they say to themselves? What feels interesting to them? What are they excited at having said?
            • When there is [[push]] back, [[pull]] and [[move]] to [[change]] an [[angle]] very slightly.
            • Involve them in solving the [[problem]]. The [[solution]] has to be theirs, for them, to [[trust]] it.
            • When there is [[push]] back, [[shift]] to another [[angle]].
            • Someone cannot be [[responsible]] for [[change]] if they think they cannot change.
            • Offer help to [[change]], and give them the [[choice]] of taking it or leaving it.
        • A [[talk]] can move toward [[harmony]] or [[dissonance]].

• May 13, 2023 ** 15:18 uln industries

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