The superior man has nine wishes.

• In seeing, he wishes to see clearly.
• In hearing, he wishes to hear distinctly.
• In his expression, he wishes to be warm.
• In his appearance, he wishes to be respectful.
• In his speech, he wishes to be sincere.
• In handling affairs, he wishes to be serious.
• When in doubt, he wishes to ask.
• When he is angry, he wishes to think of the resultant difficulties.
• And when he sees an opportunity for gain, he wishes to think of righteousness.