📚 node [[trans in public]]
  • I'm at the park with my daughter and i feel so othered. I feel like a second class citizen. constantly worried that someone will judge me for my existence.
  • everywhere public is like this. the grocery store. going for a walk. most things.
  • a constant state of hyper vigilance
  • it's subtle. physically I look fine. internally I worry for my life
  • I constantly worry my kid is gonna make a scene and jeopardize my life
  • I constantly worry my kid will out me and I fear for my life
  • it limits my capacity to parent and I am saddened by this
  • I worry my coparent doesn't understand
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